Writer Emme Witt-Eden’s new book is a wildly entertaining and unfiltered narrative of her experience becoming an “f-girl” – well, a middle-aged one.

Newly separated and determined to reclaim her life, writer Emme Witt-Eden embarked on a journey to rediscover herself through sex.

Filled with riveting and sensual descriptions, Confessions of a Middle-Aged F-Girl is more than an erotic memoir; it's the story of one woman’s emotional rebirth. Lustful in places, tragic in others, and sometimes downright hilarious, this book offers an uncensored look at what it is to date as a middle-aged woman in our modern age. With unabashed honesty, Witt-Eden shows that women really do reach their sexual peak after 40 and that it’s never too late to start over.

Who is Emme Witt-Eden?

Emme Witt-Eden (she/her) is a former Dominatrix, writer, and sex expert. Her work has appeared in Vice, The Daily Dot, Business Insider, Giddy, Yahoo Life, SheKnows, and MetroUK. Stories of her life have also been featured in The New York Post, The Daily Star, and Parade.

A year ago, she founded Sugar Cubed Media to release Confessions of a Middle-Aged F-Girl. Most recently, one of her stories was included in ProMomme, an anthology about sex-working parents, created in collaboration between SWOPLA and Cash Machine. One of her essays will also be included in the forthcoming anthology, Hands on: Stories of Sexuality Work, Intimacy, and Healing, published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers, available April 2025.

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My Tinder Date Wore My Underwear During Sex - Cosmo

What It’s Like to Be Married to an OnlyFans Model - Vice

Some women experience orgasms from a 'G-spot' in their throats. Sex experts explain how it's possible - Business Insider

I was a 42-year-old sugar baby who asked for $500 per date. I sought sexual fulfillment after my divorce and I was happy to be spoiled, too. - Business Insider

I'm a mom who earned $4,000 a month with my OnlyFans. Here's why I quit. - Business Insider

Teachers who do sex work on the side are usually fired. Will they ever be able to claim employment discrimination? - The Daily Dot

I had a threesome with a couple I met on holiday and it was liberating - Yahoo! Life

Why Women Prefer Audio Erotica Over Visual Porn - Giddy

What Does It Mean to Be an Ecosexual? - Giddy

'Expanded Orgasms' So Intense They Cause Altered States of Consciousness–And How to Have One - Cashmere

Content Leaks Are More Than Revenue Loss For Sex Workers —It’s a Violation of Consent -Cashmere

We smoked weed, had sex and never saw one another again – it was the best date - MetroUK

I left my husband and kids at home to go on hot dates in Costa Rica - MetroUK

I left a sexless marriage and started to secretly write about my love life – this is my week in sex - MetroUK

As a Mom of 2, Having an Open Relationship Ended My Marriage — & I’m Happy It Did - SheKnows

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